The airing of the Surviving R. Kelly docuseries forced me to face a harsh realization on rape culture in the Black community and the definition of victim blaming. The first weekend of 2019 opened up with a social media blaze. While college football bowl games and the NFL Wildcard were at the top of the list, there was nothing trending harder or longer than Lifetime’s docuseries chronicaling the lifestyle of whom many call the King of R&B, musician Robert Kelly – better known